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“Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others” - Brené Brown
Here I was. It was 2 am. I had been in the office since before 8 am, and I was on a conference call.
I was working for an international company in Singapore. That mea...
Sometimes we make a bad first impression.
Sometimes people hear things about us before they even know us and form a negative opinion.
Sometimes we do something stupid and we hurt a relationship.
Sometimes we encounter resistance from people around us when we try to do something new because the...
Paralysis by Analysis - Analysis Paralysis.
I've heard it both ways and either gets in the way of our progress.
Over the years, I've had my share of paralytic moments!
And when I talk to my clients they often say the same thing: "I'd love to leave my job to follow a bigger purpose, but I don't know how...
When I was a teen trying to figure out what I wanted to do from a career standpoint, I had no clue which way to go. I did have some ideas that appealed to me, such as being a stewardess and traveling the world or becoming an interpreter for the UN, but I didn't feel called to any of them with this d...
I used to be someone whose primary human drive was certainty and to a certain extent, I still am. So when I decided to leave my corporate job, the fear of the unknown became very much front and center. Gone were the days of a steady paycheck, 401Ks, knowing more or less what I could expect when I we...
I was talking to a friend who is a senior-level female executive this week and was asking her "When you think about the women you work with, what do you think gets in their way of achieving their goals and desires?" Part of her answer was "Life balance" which makes perfect sense. And the rest of her...
I woke up again in a cold sweat with my heart beating out of my chest. It was happening increasingly often. But the worst part was not being able to go back to sleep. That was my life for many years! And then, my stepdaughter came to live with us. She was plagued by several issues which meant that h...
“I can’t believe it’s already noon!”
I said these exact words, not more than 10 minutes ago, as I started emptying the dishwasher. This was after I took the time to clean the rest of the kitchen, start the laundry, clear out some of my inbox, check out what was going on, on social media and eat som...
January 27th marks one year since I left my 9-5 to coach full-time. It hasn’t been an easy year. There was a lot to learn, many things to put in place, disappointments to be had and questions around whether or not I was doing the right thing. Today, I know that I am exactly where I am supposed to be...
How many times have you set boundaries with someone, and they completely ignored them? It's frustrating, isn't it? And often leads to us feeling like we're not worth anything. In this blog post, we're going to talk about how to set boundaries that actually stick.
If you want to be successful, you n...
Aaaaand….. It’s goal setting time again! It’s actually one of my favorite times of the year. It’s a moment filled with reflection, celebration and hope at the year to come. It’s a moment when we get to spend time with friends and family and with ourselves as we think about what we’ve been through, a...
Do you trust yourself to get things done, to take your life where you want it to go?
We all have moments of uncertainty, but there are some questions we can ask ourselves that can help to guide us and put a spotlight on the areas that we need to pay attention to.
Answer these 5 and start walking more...